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[翻譯] 在綠帽婚姻中，妻子如何看待她的丈夫
在Google上搜索Cuckold Marriage，偶然發現一組Quora上的問答。問題是：
「How does a wife feel about her husband in a cuckold marriage?」
因為我想起來我的一個多年女網友，一個比我大幾歲的姐姐，是個十足的騷貨，給自己老公戴綠帽無數，老公雖然也有綠帽心理，但她在外面玩得太瘋，以至於多數事情不敢跟老公分享。我想起她有時候說，越來越看不起自己老公，她還提醒我，小心我老婆在外面有男人久了，心態也像她那樣變化。
所以我就對這個問題很好奇，點進去看了幾個回答，其實沒有看到像我那位網友姐姐那麼消極的。基本上都是對綠帽婚姻/生活方式的讚許，以及對老公的尊重和愛。有些提供了很有意思的視角，有些回答也挺讓人興奮的。於是就很想翻譯出來分享給院友。先試著翻譯一個回答，有時間我會繼續後面幾個。
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回答#1:
I am a cuckold husband not the cuckold’s wife, so my answer only comes from what my wife told me and is therefore only partial. But I am going to offer a quite special view (at least I think it’s quite special) about how a wife might feel about her cuckold husband.
我是個綠帽夫，而不是綠帽的妻子，因此我的回答僅來自妻子告訴我的內容，所以也許有點偏。但是我能提供關於妻子對綠帽夫的感覺比較特別的觀點（至少我認為這是非常特別的）。
More than once, my wife said that she always has a “dream boy” in her mind. It’s kinda like a wet daydream that has been with her since her early teenage. That is, she has kept fantasizing such a boy/man for almost 30 years. This is not exactly me. For example, my penis should be categorized as small not average. Also I am 5 years younger than her, a fact that she did not foresee when she started this daydream. But my wife thinks that I am, as a cuckold husband and as just who I am, indeed fulfilling this role in her dream and actually doing better because I do more (of course, real life is more complex than a fantasy land where there is no dishes, laundry, and bills). So that’s what SHE said (I summarized and organized):
我的妻子不止一次地說，她的腦海裡總是有一個“夢中男孩”。自從她十幾歲的少女時代以來，她就一直在做白日夢。也就是說，她一直幻想著這樣的男孩/男人近30年了。這個男孩的形象不完全是我。例如，我的陰莖應該算是小而不是平均，還有我比她小5歲，這是她開始做白日夢時沒有預見到的事實。但是我的妻子認為我作為一個綠帽丈夫，以及我的身份，確實在她的夢想中履行了這個角色，並且因為我做得更多而實際上做得更好（當然，現實生活比幻想世界複雜得多，幻想中沒有柴米油鹽和帳單）。以下就是她所說的（由我覆述總結）：
This boy is definitely my best friend ever. I love him more than anyone. He has been growing up with me and now he is a grown man. We share a lot of common interests: academic areas, red wine, arts, classic music and jazz, figure skating, fashion, food from various cultures….We also explore some crazy things together, such as weed (well, crazy enough for our hometown in Asia) and men’s chastity. He knows all my secrets, even my dirtiest desires and experiences, but he would never judge me or tell my parents (when I was young). Sometimes he is like my “male girl friend” because I told him about every boy and every man that I am romantically or sexually interested in. I describe to him in details, like how I am turned on by a certain guy’s butt, chest, and how I imagine the guy’s oral skill and penis. I told my dream boy that I imagine the hot guy’s penis is big because I love it big, and the dream boy is excited with me even though his is just average. After my first kiss with a super hot guy, I can’t wait to tell my dream boy about it. I then share all my sexual experiences with him and he loves to listen to all of these. Sometimes he gives me advices.
這個男孩絕對是我最好的朋友。我愛他勝過任何人。他和我一起成長，現在已經成年。我們有很多共同的興趣愛好：學術領域，紅酒，藝術，古典音樂和爵士樂，花樣滑冰，時裝，來自各種文化的美食……。我們還一起探索一些瘋狂的事物，例如飛葉子（嗯，對於我們亞洲老家來說已經足夠瘋狂了）和男人的貞操（注：Chastity或指貞操鎖）。他知道我所有的秘密，甚至我最骯髒的慾望和經歷，但是他永遠也不會批判我或告訴我的父母（我小的時候）。有時他像我的“男閨蜜”，因為我會告訴他每個我想與之戀愛或者有性趣的男孩和男人。我會向他詳細介紹那些男人，例如某個男人的臀部，胸部打動了我，以及我怎樣想像那個男人的口活兒和陰莖。我告訴夢中男孩，我認為這個帥哥的陰莖很大，因為我喜歡粗大的那玩意，而夢中男孩也為此感到很興奮，即使他的那個只是平均水平。當與超級帥哥初吻後，我會迫不及待地想告訴我的夢中男孩。然後，我與他分享我所有的性經歷，他喜歡聽所有這些。有時他還給我出主意。
However, he is more than a male girl friend. We are physically intimate. He gives me advices on fashion, including lingerie, and he would see me changing clothes. We may sleep together, naked. Sometimes we shower together without doing anything. Sometimes, we hug, kiss, cuddle, and touch each other in a very intimate but less sexual way. We play each other’s body like it’s funny, or, like we are incestuous siblings playing. Sometimes if I am in mood I may make him cum by fingers or tongue, but it’s much more the case that he makes me cum with his fingers and tongue—especially when I need orgasms but don’t have a really masculine and dominant lover at the time. Sexually, I desire and prefer someone different from this dream boy (someone more aggressive and dominant), but I love my dream boy the most. Sometimes I try some new skill on him before I apply that to my lovers; sometimes I taught him some skills even though he is mostly with me. I try not to ask too much about him and other girls/women because I would be jealous. We even actually fucked a few times, but this is never a norm between us and we didn’t feel awkward after those accidents, experiments, or memorable/special moments in our lives. He is a gentleman and wouldn’t push me to have sex with him just because we did occasionally have sex once for quite a while.
但是，他不僅僅是一個男閨蜜。我們也有肌膚之親。他會給我關於時尚的建議，包括內衣，他還會看到我換衣服。我們可能赤身裸體地睡在一起。有時我們一起洗澡但不發生什麼。有時，我們以一種非常親密但沒那麼多性的方式擁抱，親吻，依偎和触摸彼此。我們互相玩弄對方的身體只是覺得好玩，或者像是亂倫的兄妹。心情好的時候，我也許會用手或舌頭讓他到，但更多時候是他用手和舌頭讓我到，尤其是我需要性高潮但缺少真正很有男性魅力的情人的時期。在性方面，我更喜歡一個與夢中男孩不同的人，一個更具侵略性和統治力的人，但我最愛我的夢中男孩。有時，我會在他身上試驗一些新技能，然後再將其用到我的情人們身上；有時我教他新技能，即使他大部分時間都在我身邊。我盡量不對他和其他女孩/女人的事過問太多，因為我會吃醋。我們實際上也會肏過幾次，但這絕不是我們之間的常態，在我們之間偶發的、試驗性的、或儀式性的做愛之後，我們也不會感到尷尬。他是一位紳士，不會因為我們很少做愛而要求和我更多的性愛。
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