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My wife got taken advantages of... Part 3

Instead of replying to individual members, I posted it here as a story.
I hope I can answer some of the questions member asked.

I was introduced to wife swapping and then back out from it all because of a guy I met over the Internet.  We were both eager to have our wife getting fuck by other man.  He later succeeded.  However, because of this his wife got into some kind of trouble.  He said it was big trouble.  He didn’t say much.  But he mentioned about photos and videos.  I haven’t talked to him for a long time.  He no longer gets onto the same swinger site we used to chat on.  I wrote to him by email. Yet there were no reply.

I hope he will read this post and contact me.

Spring4u was a site he introduced me to a while back.  However, I didn’t sign up until recently.  He told me it was mainly a Chinese site.  That was why I hesitated to sign up for.

He was one of the guys who flirted with my wife over MSN.  Then, we had a very good time talking about it afterwards.  My wife never knew about this.  Neither did his wife know about me who emailed her all those seductive emails.
My wife went to the club yesterday.  When she was doing her aerobic dance, I browsed around the outside of the club to see if those two guys were there.  When outdoor is darker then indoor, they cannot see me clearly especially when the room light was on.

I saw them preparing their camera and video camcorder.  I know something is going to happen in a bad way.  They will sure be taken photos and videos of my wife if she stayed with them.  Even if it weren’t nude photos, they would be taking photos like last time when they flipped my wife upside down and have her T-Shirt rolled up showing her bare body except with her bra on.  This is bad enough.  What else would they take is out of my control.  They are big and tall.  There is no way I can go in and flight them or to seize their equipments.

I rushed back and entered the club to look for my wife.  I cannot enter any room because I am not a member.  I was waiting at the reception area anxiously.  When her class ended, she came out to tell me those two guys were waiting for her to take video while she is doing her self-defence moves.  They said it would benefit her from seeing what she had done wrong.  So that she could improve the next time.
I told her not tonight.  I have something important to discuss with her.  She said all right and went to the ladies’ locker room to get her belongings.  Those two guys must be waiting impatiently.  One of them came out to look for her.

I heard her voice saying no, next time, my husband is waiting for me as she was walking out.  He was pulling on her wrist trying to pull her back.  It was like my wife was dragging herself out.  He was surprised seeing me waiting in the reception area.  I am sure he would have pulled her much harder instead of letting her walked all the way out to meet me in the front if he knew I was there waiting.
My wife rushed to me and turned around saying next time, okay!

When we got into the car, I told my wife about my thoughts.  She said she never thought of that before.  I told her stop going to the club and I will spend time with her doing other things.  She agreed and then asked.  What about my membership.  I paid for a whole year. I said just forget about it.

2008-4-23 02:40

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However, if you decided not to let her go ahead then you need to work out a replacement hobby to get her attention. Not just say no and forbid her to do thing that are temping. Something fun to take her mind off those lusty thought is good for her.

Like a child who see a new toy, you cannot just forcefully take it away, offer her candy to get her mind away.....

By the way, it also helps if you can talk to her more and get her side of the story, how she actually feel etc. You can even have sex with her while she talked about it so she will associate the sexual release back to you instead of longing for their attention. Masturbating imagining them taking her is going to drive her more to their side to let them have sex with her. Remember this especially if you do not want that to happen. Also, do not show anger if she seemed turn on by the situation, just satisfy her need yourself in your way so she associate you being the solution of her desire, not those guys.

Explaining to her the risk of being blackmailed with photos, video etc. is important too. From what you described they seemed to be going that route to shot her either for personal pleasure or showing off to friends, if not worst. Avoiding those guys altogether is best if doable. Otherwise, at lease make sure meeting in public places, do not drink anything they offer, etc.

Playing a game is fun, but play wisely and make sure no one get hurt, mentally or physically. You know the news in HK about artist's sex photo and video exposed on the net for all to see? Destroy their marriage and career altogether.

Hope this helps.

2008-4-23 03:11

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Thank you so much edchk.  I am working on this carefully.

I don't read Hong Kong news and this is the only Chinese site I get on.  Therefore, I do not know about what happened to the artists in Hong Kong.

I did explain to her about the risk of being blackmailed by video.  She agreed and will stop going to that club.

2008-4-23 03:43

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這一陣子你們該試看看一起度個倆人的假期或者是共做一些事情

或許能讓你的心情好多一些

有些事情或許真的沒那麼的複雜　也或許不是你想的那樣一回事

2008-4-23 05:26

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Indeed, like edchk and wendy suggested, it is a good idea to spend more
time with your wife in the near future, not only to take her mind off
the matter, but to let her know that you stopped her because you care
for her. Otherwise, it might stay as a shadow over your wife's mind and
may come back and haunt the two of you later. The game is only fun when
both of you find it enjoyable. Once you are confident enough, you may
talk to her about it asking her feelings at the time etc. But I would
wait some time before picking it up, if i were you.
Good luck anyway.

[ 本帖最後由 mayday11 於 2008-4-23 06:16 編輯 ]

2008-4-23 06:15

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原帖由 mayday11 於 2008-4-23 06:15 發表
Indeed, like edchk and wendy suggested, it is a good idea to spend more
time with your wife in the near future, not only to take her mind off
the matter, but to let her know that you stopped her ...

Thank you both Wendy and mayday11 for your suggestions.

However, it is not that easy to take holiday. I have three weeks a year and she has two weeks a year. We already took a week off and went skiing in February 2008. That was when I hurt my lower back. It greatly affected our sex life.

Yes, we are holding off for now. Since we have no children and our family and friends live in another city, we therefore have too much time to spend after work. We have to find something to do.

2008-4-23 10:47

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翻譯

與其逐個院友回應，我決定發新帖繼續說我的故事，希望能解答院友們的疑問。

我對換妻有興趣，但卻又不敢去做是因為一個我在網路認識的朋友。我倆都想看
自己老婆被人幹，後來他成功了。可是，他老婆卻因此捲入一些麻煩事。他沒有
詳細說，只表示是很麻煩，而且涉及照片和錄影帶。我很久沒有跟他聊過，他也
再沒有上我們一起聊天的那個換妻網站。我曾經發電郵給他，但他沒有回覆。

我希望他會看見這帖並聯絡我。

很久以前他已介紹四合院給我的，但我最近才註冊。他告訴我這是個中文佔大部
份的站，所以我一直猶疑沒有註冊。

他是其中一個和我老婆在msn調情的人，之後我們都會聊個不亦樂乎，不過我的妻
子是不知道的，而他的妻子也不認識我，更不知一直向她發挑逗性電郵的人是我。
我老婆昨天去了那健身中心。當她跳健康舞時，我在健身中心外四處打量，看看那
兩個傢伙在不在。因為房外面比裡面黑，他們不能看清楚我。

我看到他們已預備好相機和攝錄機，我知道一些不好的事將會發生。如果老婆跟他
們一起，他們肯定會幫她拍照、拍片。就算不是拍裸照，他們也會拍些像上次把我
老婆上下倒轉時，衣衫跌下時露出胸罩的走光照。那已經夠糟了。他們還會做些甚
麼，實在是超出我所控制的。他們又健壯又高，我是沒可能走進去打倒他們，或者
打破他們的相機。

我走進健身中心找我老婆。我不是會員，所以我不能進任何一間房。我一直在接待
處著急地等。當她下課，她過來告訴我那兩個男人在等她，並會在她練習自衛術時
為她錄影，他們說這樣有助她改善技巧。

我對她說今晚不行，因為我有些重要事相和她相討。她說好，之後到更衣室取回隨
身物品。那兩個男人一定已等得不耐煩了，其中一人走出來找她。

她邊走邊說「不，下次吧，我老公在等我」。他拉她的手腕，試著把她拉回去。我
老婆看起來很費力才可掙開。他看到我在接待處等，樣子有點驚訝。我肯定如果他
早知我在，他一定會更用力把她拉回去，而不會任由她走過來。

老婆連忙過來我跟前，轉身對他說下次才成。

我們上車，我把我的想法告訴她。她說她之前從來沒有想過。我叫她不要再去那家
健身中心，我會跟她一起幹點別的。她同意但問「那我的會籍怎麼辦？我已繳交了
一年會費。」我說忘了它吧。

2008-4-23 21:49

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QUOTE:

原帖由爪王於 2008-4-23 21:49 發表
與其逐個院友回應，我決定發新帖繼續說我的故事，希望能解答院友們的疑問。

我對換妻有興趣，但卻又不敢去做是因為一個我在網路認識的朋友。我倆都想看
自己老婆被人幹，後來他成功了。可是，他老婆卻因此捲入 ...

I am very thankful for 爪王 big big to translate my story for me. However, I received an email from my friend. He said he saw my post today. Even though I used a different name, he knew it was me.

He told me not to reveal too much personal matters to the public. Maybe he is right.

2008-4-24 05:11

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原帖由 Raider 於 2008-4-24 05:11 發表

I am very thankful for 爪王 big big to translate my story for me. However, I received an email from my friend. He said he saw my post today. Even though I used a different name, he knew it w ...

No need to thank me, Raider big big.

In fact, I find you story interesting and worth to discuss among members here, as it is a very seriously issue for all the people who are interested in wife watching. By do this, I guess more members can join the discussion.

And I have to say sorry to all buddies here for my direct trasnlation, which is poor in quality.

raider 大大客氣了，不用言謝。

事實上，我認為你的故事很有趣，而且值得院友討論，因為那可算是我們對妻被淫有興趣的人的重要議題。我希望我的翻譯可以讓更多人參與討論。

不過要在這裡向各院友道歉，我只照意思直譯，事實上譯得很差。

2008-4-24 17:38

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原帖由爪王於 2008-4-24 17:38 發表

No need to thank me, Raider big big.

In fact, I find you story interesting and worth to discuss among members here, as it is a very seriously issue for all the people who are interested i ...

What you have done was a great job. It was difficult enough for me to read all these Chinese, let alone writing them like you.

I attempted to try out the story sections. However, the length was just overwhelmed me. That was why I still stick with this column for its simplicity, meaning just a few lines here and there. Not too much reading.

2008-4-24 19:44

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爪王大大真是厲害與熱心，本來看到英文直接跳過去，後來忍不住想試試自己的英文理解力，看了半天果然....每個字母都很清楚，合起來的句子就是看不懂！
還好繼續看，有看到爪王的翻譯，不過有回應也是英文，就不知在講什麼!

看完還是不知捲入什麼樣的麻煩？事實上有許多對妻被淫有興趣的人，真的很怕為一時刺激，惹出一堆麻煩而籌足不前，甚至放棄念頭!

2008-4-25 10:12

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